no-win situations

You may often find that you are in "no win" situations, wherein your instinctive reactions conflict with your common sense.

当你的本能反应与你所具有的常识产生冲突时，你会发现自己处于失利的境地。

Often, you may find that you are in "no win" situations, in which you feel you have to choose a path that conflicts with your inner needs.

你常常会感觉到自己处于失利的境地，这是因为你总是不得不选择一条与你内心需求相悖的道路。